Enter the terms you wish to faceook most recent free gay videos for. The Triggers of Sexual Desire: Men vs. Women Part 1—Are Male Brains Hard-Wired to See Females as Sex Objects? Neuroscientists have much to teach us about the what’s and why’s of our sexual preferences.
Merely on the basis of personal experience, you might be able to guess some of their findings. Still, the results of their research on the nature and origins of our erotic interests aren’t always intuitive. This particular segment of my multi-post coverage on the subject of human sexual desire will itself be divided into two parts. Here I’ll be discussing the fundamentals of male erotic predilections. In the next part I’ll take up the quite different psycho-neurological cues that propel most women’s sexual desire. As soon as the lust-inspiring image registers in their brain, they become turned-on—not only physically but psychologically, too. It’s therefore no coincidence that many adult sites targeting men zero in on body parts.
100 top-rated images no fewer than 23 exhibit close-ups of female anatomy without a face. Ogas and Gaddam continually make observations about male sexual desire that indirectly suggest the perpetual war between the sexes—unless, I would add, that at some point both men and women realize that however at variance their sexual instincts may be, they are just that—instincts. That is, the single-minded pursuit of sexual arousal can exist totally independent of a relationship. Unlike his female counterpart, he gives little or no thought to actually sharing his erotic predilections or experiences with friends. But with Fudd it’s his rifle, not his phallus, that propels him ever forward. Beyond the particular physical, or visual, cues that men seek for arousal, some additional psychological cues might also be mentioned here.
The first of these may seem a little surprising, for what I’ve been describing probably suggests an almost shamelessly egocentric attitude toward women. But for the great majority of men it turns out to be the most arousing stimuli of all. Closely related to this female pleasure cue is the authenticity cue. To secure their own arousal, men need to feel convinced that renderings of the woman’s arousal aren’t fake but a representation of actual sexual excitement. Males of most species are wired to become aroused by novelty. And this explains why amateur porn is so popular. For, typically, it includes not only authenticity cues but novelty ones as well.
Why Do Women Fall for Serial Killers? Ogas and Gaddam continually make observations about male sexual desire that indirectly suggest the perpetual war between the sexes—unless, I would add, that at some point both men and women realize that however at variance their sexual instincts may be, they are just that—instincts. I think that a therapist who tries to hold a marriage together when one of the spouses is abusive or a pedophile should be sued for malpractice. I have come to believe that the real culprit in marriage isn’t the particular problems people bring to therapists, it’s when one or both spouses become hopeless. This may happen dozens of times a day, continuing non-stop from early childhood until death.
And here the authors’ biological and evolutionary explanations for this sexual preference hardly seem necessary. And the infinite smorgasbord that is the Internet provides opportunities for pursuing novelty like no medium that ever before existed. The Triggers of Sexual Desire: Are Male Brains Hard-Wired to See Females as Sex Objects? Why Do Women Fall for Serial Killers? Why Do Men Find Women’s Legs So Alluring? What Secret Male Sexual Fantasy Is Surprisingly Common? I hope you’ll consider passing it on.
NOTE 3: If you’d like to check out other posts I’ve done for Psychology Today online—on a broad variety of psychological topics—click here. To be notified whenever I post something new, I invite readers to join me on Facebook—as well as on Twitter where, additionally, you can follow my frequently unorthodox psychological and philosophical musings. Obviously, this is a subject in which you’re well informed. Still, as planned, there are 8 additional parts to this series. And I can pretty much guarantee that you’ll learn some things that will surprise, if not startle, you. 40- plus years, I don’t need it! No, it’s exactly the bullshit you want to hear.